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    Friday, June 13, 2008, 03:23 AM [General]

    I went for a job interview yesterday afternoon, I applied for a Sales position at Jenny Craig and I was contaced the day I applied and asked to come in for an interview the following day. So I did. I was really pleased, it seemed like I had finally found a job where I could be a valuable asset as an employee. Who better to help motivate people than someone like me?! I'm severly overweight I'm aware of this. But surely you'd want to have someone there you can relate too? Think, I could have really promoted the company at least the center in my area, Come lose weight with me, and have me lose weight along with my customers. So I go in for the interview and the Director takes me to her office, and the interview starts well enough, then she asks me why do I think I'd be valuable as an employee? well I tell here what I've already stated above. and then she tells me that, she disagrees, that she thinks if I were hired that I would cause the center to lose buisness because people would come in, see me, then become offended and or leave thinking that "well this program dosen't work look at who they hired." Because I'm fat!!!  What The ****?! It took all my strength not to jump up and knock that little ho unconcious! If that wasn't bad enough then she looked at me and asked what do I know of Jenny Craig, If anything at all?  ummmm...what type of idiot dose she take me for? with all the ccelebrity endorsement even a 80 yr old shut in knows about Jenny Craig. I have close realatives that are on the program and even go to the very center I was interviewed at.  So I know first hand about the program and that it works. Then the little bitch realized that she's blatenly offended me ...no shit right?...  She then tells me how 6 - 8 months ago this size 2, 90 pound chick lost "65 pounds"  Bull Shit, This woman's frame is so small that if she were 65 pounds over weight you would be able to see the tell tale signs like gee, i don't know,  Stretch marks under that super short sleeved nearly no sleeves baby t-shirt. And if she truly had ever been over weight like that she would have never said that to me. with all the emotional abuse we put our selves through and our near non exsistent low self esteeme. no, obese current or otherwise whould ever say that to another person.  The most this chick could have ever been overweight would the 5 pounds she gained on her last period but, lost it after she threw up. At that the interview was over, I stood up and left

    When I got home, I wasted no time in calling the 1800 number to log a formal complaint, The gentleman I spoke to was outraged by what I told him and profusely apologized to me I could hear his genuine disgust as he typed the report that he was to send to his boss and the corporate office. However, it's his job, he told me the Jenny Craig policy, "All Jenny Craig Employees must model the image of a healthy lifestyle" Basically they only hire size 2 or less.

    I've been trying to get a job since January. There have been multiple jobs that I'm qualified for, That I am a "desireable applicant" for hire. Then, after the phone interview I show up to the on site interview, My persona and answers don't change I'm still the same person they spoke to. But, after that I never hear another word. Then, months even weeks later, I see the same job has been relisted and they are still seeking employees. If they had openings and if I was so "desireable and qualified" why didn't I get hired? Yesterday's issue has got me reflecting on this. Is it because I'm fat and not society's view of beauty? Is it really something so shallow as that? why I still don't have a job?  My common sense is riging in my skull No, this can't be. but, I have yet to be proven wrong. 

     

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    I don't know who Jenny Craig is but regardless this is discrimination and totally out of order! I am quite utterly shocked at it, so much so that even though I don't know you, I felt compelled to leave you a comment.

    I hope things brighten up for you soon with Midsummer approaching, there is more light and hopefully it will shine your way. I really do not understand how some peoples minds operate, they showed you very little respect and it's not nice at all!!

    I am sending blessings and positive energy your way. I hope you find a job where you will be appreciated for who you are.

    Blessings.

    Moon Maiden
    June 13, 2008
    04:54 AM CST

    Have you considered talking to a lawyer or perhaps even a local ACLU? Honestly, when I read this, it felt very strongly to me that you really might have something to talk to them about! I am unsure of what would constitute a discrimination case in your state, but it is definitely worth a try. I think a strong point in your favor is what she said to you. That was so completely out of line, I think that it could be considered a possible legal issue. Failing that, I would let absolutely everyone you know know what you experienced. Modeling the image of a healthy lifestyle does not mean being thin. It means undertaking a varied and healthy diet, exercise and being emotionally and spiritually balanced and conveying that to others. These things may or may not help you be a lighter weight. Being thin does not mean you are healthy and being weighty does not mean you are unhealthy. Best of wishes to you dear!

    Niamh

    Niamh
    June 13, 2008
    06:14 AM CST

    I have a friend who is a group rep for Weight Watchers and she was absolutely distraught that the senior rep had given her a written warning that if she didn't loose 10 lbs. in two weeks, she would be fired from her job becaus she "no longer maintained the image desired by Weight Watchers." This is a woman who at 5ft,4in weighed 135 lbs, walked everyday during lunch hour at her regular job instead of eating, and worked out at the gym three times a week! This is also a woman who'd lost over a 100 lbs two years ago prior to joining weight watchers.
    I am overweight and a trained nurse. I do not have the perfect body and never will because of my genetics and build. But I am healthy and have learned to be kinder and more accepting to myself over the years. I am tired of treating young women in the ER who have made themselves mentally and physically ill by starving themselves to get to an ideal weight dictated by an insurance company weight/height chart developed 30 years ago,a physican who has made a thoughtless remark about dieting,or a hysterical mother or boyfriend who thinks she would be prettier if she just lost some weight. People should be accepted for their character, personality and ethics before all else.There is a no difference between an overweight or obese individual who otherwise fits the requirements of a job,dresses to suit the position,and puts forth the effort to be an asset to the employer and an individual of "normal" weight. NONE WHAT SO EVER.

    AmethJera
    June 13, 2008
    09:45 PM CST

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